When is it that boys make the turn toward manhood? I pondered that as I watched a boy leave home for the first time this past week. Born on the east-side, he knew first hand the grit of gangs, violence, and fatherless homes. A mom that cared, an athletic gift from God and a junior college football scholarship provided the opportunity to educate his mind and exercise his talent.
I had come to know Kris during the last two years. He was the popular star athlete with blazing speed and a tough guy reputation. He is a quiet, scared boy that longs to please others. The uncertainty of the future with it’s temptations, decisions and increasing weight of personal responsibility will make him a man.
I knew he was scared. I knew he was sad. I knew he would miss his mom. I knew he would miss his friends. I knew he would miss our family. On his last night he left a note telling us that. Here some highlights:
“I really learned a lot from each of y'all,...” “You will always be in my heart and on my shoulder,...” “The first time I met you I didn’t think I would like you but you turned out to be great,...” “Thank you so much for the fun times,...” “I never thought I would get it right..., but you changed me into a better boy/man.” and the PS, “Thanks for letting me have the experience of having a close family.”
Bags packed for the future and tears shed for the past meant it was time to face the fear and hope that lay ahead. Such is the way for boys 2 men.
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